2.18.2006

Words that are getting me through

"and I did not come here to offer you cliches, and I will not pretend to know of all your pain, just when you cannot bear I will hold out faith for you. It's gonna be allright" - Sara Groves

"It will find you when the doctor's head is shaking. It will find you in a boardroom mostly dead. It will crawl into the foxhole where you're praying. It will curl up in your halfway empty bed. Baby, don't believe that's it's over. Maybe you can't see around the corner. Hold On, love will find you. Hold on, He's right behind you now. Just turn around. " - Nichole Nordeman

"5am here I am, walking the block to table talk. You could cry, or die, or just make pies all day. I'm making pies." - Patty Griffin

"in the burning of uncertainty, I will be your solid ground. I will hold the balance if you can't look down. If it takes my whole life, I won't break, I won't bend. It will all be worth it in the end. I can only tell you what I know, that I need you in my life. When the stars have all gone out you'll still be burning so bright. Cast me gently, into morning, for the night has been unkind. Take me to a place so holy, that I can wash this from my mind. Memory, I'm choosing not to fight." - Sarah McLachlan

THE INITIATIVE AGAINST DEPRESSION


"Arise and eat." 1 Kings 19:5

The angel did not give Elijah a vision, or explain the Scriptures to him, or do anything remarkable; he told Elijah to do the most ordinary thing, viz., to get up and eat. If we were never depressed we should not be alive; it is the nature of a crystal never to be depressed. A human being is capable of depression, otherwise there would be no capacity for exaltation. There are things that are calculated to depress, things that are of the nature of death; and in taking an estimate of yourself, always take into account the capacity for depression.

When the Spirit of God comes He does not give us visions, He tells us to do the most ordinary things conceivable. Depression is apt to turn us away from the ordinary commonplace things of God's creation, but whenever God comes, the inspiration is to do the most natural simple thing - the things we would never have imagined God was in, and as we do them we find He is there. The inspiration which comes to us in this way is an initiative against depression; we have to do the next thing and do it in the inspiration of God. If we do a thing in order to overcome depression, we deepen the depression; but if the Spirit of God makes us feel intuitively that we must do the thing, and we do it, the depression is gone. Immediately we arise and obey, we enter on a higher plane of life.

2.14.2006

Interesting article

medialifemagazine.com
PopcultSelling America: Why we are unhappyBy Heidi DawleyFeb 6, 2006, 01:10

People have been customers since the invention of stores. But it used to be that being a customer was confined to shopping, as the one on the buy side of a business transaction.
Alas, now people are customers wherever they turn. Students are customers of schools, patients of doctors and hospitals, parishioners of their churches.

The thinking makes sense, of course. It's about accountability, or rather the search for it in an increasingly unaccountable world. If institutions see Americans as customers, they will be more responsive, providing better service. The Whopper arrives sooner, the car's engine runs smoother, the water bill is more readable, the lecture or sermon somehow more insightful. Or so the thinking goes.

But if all this seems too pat, too comfy-feeling, if it rings a bit false to the ear as you ponder it, you should be talking to Jim Hutton. An academic in New Jersey, Hutton himself began pondering this issue some 15 years ago after hearing a university president describe students as customers. Remembers Hutton, who teaches marketing: “Something about it struck me as so wrong on so many levels.”

Wrong indeed. It's a flaw in reasoning, and the flaw is that God is not a bar of soap and the church not a retail establishment whose mission is to satisfy us as customers by bathing our souls as if we were at a spa. The university does not exist to satisfy us, nor does government. We are not their customers, and to be told that we are is dishonest and cheapens those instititutions, trivializing them.

Institutions have a larger, grander role, or ought to, Hutton reasons. They also demand of us. Citizenship demands that we participate in government and that we stay informed. Education demands that we work at learning. The church, religion, demands that we confront often hard moral choices.

Hutton calls this customer chatter the customerization of America, and he describes its effects in his book “The Feel-Good Society.” He argues that customerization, in an attempt to make our institutions more relevant, has stripped them of their fundamental role as pillars of the social order.

"Marketing has run amok, and consumerism has infiltrated our basic institutions. The result is that people have lost faith in institutions,” he says. “Institutions are not providing leadership.”
Institutions are becoming more responsive but to the wrong things, pandering as they do to win approval. The effect, contends Hutton, is that Americans are less happy. He points out that opinion polls show happiness levels have fallen since the 1950s, despite America's ever-increasing affluence. And that, he argues, directly reflects their declining faith in institutions, which is also evident in polls over the past 40 years.

Hutton believes the rise of customerization began in the 1960s during the cold war and the us-versus-them mentality that arose. The western model of consumerism, in contrast to communism, evolved into something patriotic. The eventual collapse of the Soviet Union affirmed not just our political system but our economic presumptions. The market, and marketing, became the answer to every problem.

Hutton sees the damage all about. In education, cheating is on the rise and standards have fallen. Professors tell students what will make them happy rather than teaching them. Education is no longer about learning but getting a degree and a good job.

In religion churches pander to parishioners to keep them coming back. But as Hutton observes, “Church isn’t to make you feel comfortable with what you are, but instead it should transform you by degrees into something that you are not.”

In health care, doctors prescribe the drugs patients ask for over the most effective drug. In politics, leaders are guided not by ideals for fundamental beliefs but public opinion polls. The media, Hutton believes, panders to advertisers.

We are being told what we want to hear but it’s not what we need to hear. Says Hutton: "We have all this consumerism and a good economy, but none of it is making us happy.”


Meanwhile, elsewhere in popcult, the new thriller “When a Stranger Calls” topped the box office over the weekend, bringing in $22 million. That dropped last week’s No. 1, the Martin Lawrence comedy “Big Momma’s House 2,” to No. 2, with $13.4 million brought in.
In home movies, the Vince Vaughn-Owen Wilson comedy “Wedding Crashers” fell out of the top spot on Billboard’s top video rentals chart for the week ended Jan. 29, giving way to the Nicolas Cage action adventure “Lord of War.” “Wedding Crashers” dropped to No. 2 after two weeks on top.
In music, Il Divo’s new album, “Ancora,” topped the Billboard 200 album chart for the week ended Jan. 29, its fist in release, with another new release, “Your Man” by Josh Turner, coming in at No. 2. Last week’s No. 1, Jamie Foxx’s “Unpredictable,” fell to No. 2.
And in books, Stephen King returned to the charts in a big way, with his new title “Cell” topping both the New York Times’ hardcover fiction bestsellers list for the week ended Jan. 28 and USA Today’s book chart for the week ended Jan. 29.


She listed the top movies, books, and albums of the last week but that didn't copy very well. I'm not sure whey she posted those, maybe to show what it is we're consuming that's not making us happy. If you're interested the article was at http://medialifemagazine.com/artman/publish/article_2668.asp